Some surprises are the kind of epic proportions. The Hubs and I are still floored that we are having twins. I wonder if that feeling will ever change?! People mention "the twins" and it still seems absolutely bonkers that they are talking about US! That I am the one having them. (Hell, I still can't wrap my head around how they are going to fit in my body! eeeek!) It also changes everything we thought about preparing for a baby. Because before there was a running checklist of: crib, car seat, high chair, etc... and now it's like, oh crap... we need TWO of everything like we're filling a freaking Ark of baby stuff! Yikes! Better get crackalackin on a registry! LOL
Then there are those susprises that knock you for a loop and take the wind out of your sails (and apparently write a lot of idioms!). So there I was on the last day of school for teachers and staff. I expected I wouldn't be there long, as the students' last day was the day before so it was only teachers cleaning out their rooms and doing some last minute housekeeping. Before noon, my boss came into my office and sat down to talk to me. Now, I knew there was a chance my position (Dean of Students) might get cut next year but my boss assured me that if that were to happen she would put me in another position and told me not to worry. So I didn't. Apparently I should have. She came in that day to tell me that my position was not only being cut, but there was no other position for me for next year. That's it. Cut and dry, I am out of a job. I can't believe it. I have spent the past four years busting my ass for this company and they can just let me go like that, without batting an eye. They had already been screwing me over with my salary this year. I had been promised upon getting my position as Dean at the start of the year, that after a probationary period I would go from my teacher salary to the Dean one. Never happened. And all I got was the run-around. So a few weeks ago I wrote a letter to corporate (and even told my boss I was doing so!) and pleaded my case to try and at least get the proper salary for the upcoming year. But instead they let me go! It seems they don't take kindly to employees asking for the money they deserve. So I quickly packed up my things and left out the back door, avoiding the cafeteria where everyone was gathered. I didn't want to cry in front of all the teachers.
So
just like that I am out of work. I already was expecting to have the summer
off, but it's a totally different feeling when there is nothing to go back to
on the other side of it. And while the hubs and I already planned on me
quitting work for a few years once the twins are here, or at least just not doing something full time, we were counting on my
paychecks up until then. Not to mention, this means no more insurance for me. So I'll have to go on his and that is going to be WAY more expensive.
Ugh... The only glimmer of hope is that the girl who runs our company's virtual
school is anticipating needed an administrator for when they open up online K-6
in the fall. It would be a full-time position but from predominately working
from home and she said I have first dibs. Fingers and toes officially crossed.
That would be PERFECT for me so I sure hope to get it. I won't know until next
month. In the meantime I will just have to get on unemployment for now so I can
at least have SOME income rolling in. Not exactly how I anticipated things
going, but then again, when does life ever pan out exactly as planned?!
But hey, when life gives you lemons... grab some vodka and do a shot! Ugh... vodka... in another life that would have sounded fabulous, but now it just curdles my stomach. While I am absolutely over the moon about being pregnant, I am also absolutely over the toilet quite often. Retching my guts out while simultaneously peeing myself is all the rage these days and has become part of my daily routine. The best way I can put being pregnant so far is this: It's like being hungover when you have the flu and it's that time of the month. ALL THE DAMN TIME! lol. But hey... it is what it is and I'll get through it, however, I won't lie... it has been ROUGH!
I did have my final visit with Dr. T. and had another ultrasound. Babies are doing healthy and holy crap they are growing fast! **see below image for 6 week and 8 week ultrasounds** Heartbeats are strong and came in at 163 and 175, the little overachievers that they are!
Lastly, I want to give a special shout out to all of you who have been reading my blog. The feedback I am getting on a daily basis means more to me than I could ever put into words. The fact that my story is inspiring so many of you not to lose hope is all I ever wanted with this and it does my heart good to hear from you. There are even some of you who are starting a blog of your own stories (if you get a chance check out the blog of "Freija Chloe" at http://itsgonnatakeavillage.blogspot.com/ )
I DO think you ALL have a chance, despite what the doctors may tell you. Because life is full of surprises and you never know what it will bring! So keep hope alive and continue fighting the fight, you are stronger than you even realize.
Sending positive vibes your way. <3
